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We invite you to expand your current views on queerness, sexuality, and relationships!

Learn about ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and consensually alternative structures. Dive into boundary setting, jealousy management, and effective communication. Browse all.
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101 Guides To Get You Started

Recipe for Self-Care & Support Cake

Managing Jealousy in Ethical Non-Monogamy

Boundaries, Agreements, Expectations & Support

Opening Your Relationship 101

Consensually Alternative Relationship Structures

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Sam's Cat 11/2/20 Sam's Cat 11/2/20

Blessings of My Queer Community

Sam's Cat 10/28/20 Sam's Cat 10/28/20

Vegan Sex Education

I’m a shitty vegan. Once in a while I eat poutine with * gasp * REAL cheese. Here’s why I couldn’t care less about the opinion of REAL vegans, and how I structure my life to fit my needs

Sam's Cat 10/26/20 Sam's Cat 10/26/20

The Secret Link Between Satisfaction & Jealousy

Let’s explore how identifying your satisfaction point allows you to be more content in your relationship and find happiness with your pals.

Sam's Cat 10/22/20 Sam's Cat 10/22/20

Polyamory Lessons from Peer-Support

Practicing polyamory is a never-ending lesson. I share some of the valuable insights I have gained from talking to folks who practice consensually alternative relationship structures.

Sam's Cat 10/21/20 Sam's Cat 10/21/20

What’s the deal with Sharpener ASMR?

Believe it or not, being a queer sex educator doesn’t pay my bills, that’s why I have to turn to sharpener ASMR to make a living.

Sam's Cat 10/20/20 Sam's Cat 10/20/20

The Adult Industry Owes Lesbians An Apology

Lesbians have long been objectified and cast in straight male fantasies by the adult industries. It’s time to address the blatant homophobia head-on. Lesbians aren’t for consumption.