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Learn about ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and consensually alternative structures. Dive into boundary setting, jealousy management, and effective communication. Browse all.
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Magic Phrases For Polyamory
While we can’t have magic fixes to our polyamorous problems, we CAN use magic phrases to help regulate our emotions and align our actions with our values
Antidotes For Toxic Monogamy
Let’s examine common ways toxic monogamy can appear in polyamory and deconstruct those beliefs to build stronger ethical non-monogamous practices
Recipe for Self-Care & Support Cake
Practicing self-care in polyamory and ethical non-monogamy is difficult. I break down an easy method to understand self-care using a cake analogy.
Working With ENM Clients
What’s the difference between therapy and peer support? How can monogamous therapists do a better job at providing adequate care to their polyamorous clients?
My Petamour From Hell
My girlfriend’s cat is an absolute nightmare. I want to like my metamour (the cat one) but it’s impossible because she has pure toxic Gemini energy
Managing Jealousy in Ethical Non-Monogamy
A quick overview at the BITCH framework for managing jealousy in polyamory and ethical non-monogamy
Boundaries, Agreements, Expectations & Support
Dissecting the BAES framework to help polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous folks set boundaries, agreements, expectations, and ask for support.
Opening Your Relationship 101
What steps do you need to take when you or your pal wants to open your previously monogamous relationship? Take a breath, I’ll guide you through!
Consensually Alternative Relationship Structures
What are the different types of polyamory, ethically non-monogamy, and deliberate forms of monogamy? We go over all the available options!
Bad Practices In Polyamory
Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Unicorn hunters, one pen!s policies, veto power, couple’s privilege and more. I’m annoyed, let’s talk about it.
Directing Change In Polyamory
How do you deal with the constant change in polyamory? Is it possible to feel like your relationships are stable when everyone is dating and breaking up all the time?
The Secret Link Between Satisfaction & Jealousy
Let’s explore how identifying your satisfaction point allows you to be more content in your relationship and find happiness with your pals.