Relationships

Honey Bunch and I fix up our house… and our communication style. We didn’t know that tearing our house apart would test our last nerve, so we had to learn to work better together.

While we can’t have magic fixes to our polyamorous problems, we CAN use magic phrases to help regulate our emotions and align our actions with our values

Lot’s of people want casual relationships but don’t know how to maintain those connections without letting their expectations run wild!

What does it look like to have a satisfying and fulfilling life while choosing to be deliberately child-free? What alternatives are there to having a nuclear family?

Why are polyamorous people canceling each other online over disagreements, miscommunication, and other issues that should be handled inter-personally?

Let’s examine common ways toxic monogamy can appear in polyamory and deconstruct those beliefs to build stronger ethical non-monogamous practices

Queer kids have been under attack in numerous ways this year. We need to support trans children rather than vilify them and scare their families into cis-heteronormativity

Practicing self-care in polyamory and ethical non-monogamy is difficult. I break down an easy method to understand self-care using a cake analogy.

Queers love to label themselves as tops or bottoms! But are those categories too narrow and limiting our sexual expressions?

It’s no secret that polyamory takes a lot of time, resources, and energy. But how do you maintain your well-being when multiple people desire to have relationships with you?

Sex is not just sex. Sex can be tremendously beneficial as a way to experience pleasure, form connections, and deepen bonds. But sex is also about power, assimilation, and control.

What’s the difference between therapy and peer support? How can monogamous therapists do a better job at providing adequate care to their polyamorous clients?