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We invite you to expand your current views on queerness, sexuality, and relationships!
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Learn about ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and consensually alternative structures. Dive into boundary setting, jealousy management, and effective communication. Browse all.
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Beyond “Top & Bottom”
Queers love to label themselves as tops or bottoms! But are those categories too narrow and limiting our sexual expressions?
No Shame November
Sex is not just sex. Sex can be tremendously beneficial as a way to experience pleasure, form connections, and deepen bonds. But sex is also about power, assimilation, and control.
Touch Yourself! Masturbation & Self-Pleasure
Masturbation shouldn’t be a taboo! Fucking yourself is fun, freeing, and helps you discover what you actually want from partnered sex.
How To Be Sex-Positive
What is sex-positivity? How does sex-positivity help combat rape-culture and promote gender equality?
Funishment Friday
I’m absolutely obsessed with this kinky card gamed called Funishment! Here’s how playing it allowed me to discover I like lightly torturing my girlfriend with uncooked rice
Queer Sex 101
How do lesbians have sex? It’s an age old question. But the real answers might surprise you.
Trigger Plans For Better Sex
How can you create a plan with your pals to address difficult or triggering sexual situations? Learn a few steps to help support folks who are survivors of sexual violence
Different Types of Consent
What’s the difference between Explicit Verbal Consent, Non-Verbal Consent, Bodily Autonomy, and Consensual Non-Consent. How can you use these principles with your pals?
Botanical D!cks: Faux Phallus Review
If you like grinding on flowers, I’ve got just the product for you!
Octopussy Dream: Silc Arts Review
I just need to let you know how much I like tentacle d!ldos
Ceramic Toys: Désirable Review
Did you know ceramic d!ldos were a thing? I sure didn’t! Let me fill you in, because I have LOTS of thoughts
Vegan Sex Education
I’m a shitty vegan. Once in a while I eat poutine with * gasp * REAL cheese. Here’s why I couldn’t care less about the opinion of REAL vegans, and how I structure my life to fit my needs
What’s the deal with Sharpener ASMR?
Believe it or not, being a queer sex educator doesn’t pay my bills, that’s why I have to turn to sharpener ASMR to make a living.