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We invite you to expand your current views on queerness, sexuality, and relationships!
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Learn about ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and consensually alternative structures. Dive into boundary setting, jealousy management, and effective communication. Browse all.
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Learn about queer theory, gender identity, and sexual orientation. Dive into LGBTQIA+ community, validating identities, and radical queerness. Browse all.
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“Interested But Not Invested” - Keeping Things Casual
Lot’s of people want casual relationships but don’t know how to maintain those connections without letting their expectations run wild!
No Shame November
Sex is not just sex. Sex can be tremendously beneficial as a way to experience pleasure, form connections, and deepen bonds. But sex is also about power, assimilation, and control.
Funishment Friday
I’m absolutely obsessed with this kinky card gamed called Funishment! Here’s how playing it allowed me to discover I like lightly torturing my girlfriend with uncooked rice
Queer Sex 101
How do lesbians have sex? It’s an age old question. But the real answers might surprise you.
Trigger Plans For Better Sex
How can you create a plan with your pals to address difficult or triggering sexual situations? Learn a few steps to help support folks who are survivors of sexual violence
Different Types of Consent
What’s the difference between Explicit Verbal Consent, Non-Verbal Consent, Bodily Autonomy, and Consensual Non-Consent. How can you use these principles with your pals?
Opening Your Relationship 101
What steps do you need to take when you or your pal wants to open your previously monogamous relationship? Take a breath, I’ll guide you through!
Consensually Alternative Relationship Structures
What are the different types of polyamory, ethically non-monogamy, and deliberate forms of monogamy? We go over all the available options!
Coming Out As Queer
What’s the process of coming out as queer? Do we owe heterosexuals an explanation about our sexuality and gender? Is there a better way? Let’s get into it!
Bad Practices In Polyamory
Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Unicorn hunters, one pen!s policies, veto power, couple’s privilege and more. I’m annoyed, let’s talk about it.
Queer Affirmations
What does it mean to live your best queer life? How can you get more queer joy by logging off instead of searching for community online
Vegan Sex Education
I’m a shitty vegan. Once in a while I eat poutine with * gasp * REAL cheese. Here’s why I couldn’t care less about the opinion of REAL vegans, and how I structure my life to fit my needs
Polyamory Lessons from Peer-Support
Practicing polyamory is a never-ending lesson. I share some of the valuable insights I have gained from talking to folks who practice consensually alternative relationship structures.