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Redefining Family Child-Free
What does it look like to have a satisfying and fulfilling life while choosing to be deliberately child-free? What alternatives are there to having a nuclear family?
How Cancel Culture Shows Up In Polyamory
Why are polyamorous people canceling each other online over disagreements, miscommunication, and other issues that should be handled inter-personally?
Antidotes For Toxic Monogamy
Let’s examine common ways toxic monogamy can appear in polyamory and deconstruct those beliefs to build stronger ethical non-monogamous practices
Queer kids, I love you!
Queer kids have been under attack in numerous ways this year. We need to support trans children rather than vilify them and scare their families into cis-heteronormativity
Recipe for Self-Care & Support Cake
Practicing self-care in polyamory and ethical non-monogamy is difficult. I break down an easy method to understand self-care using a cake analogy.
Beyond “Top & Bottom”
Queers love to label themselves as tops or bottoms! But are those categories too narrow and limiting our sexual expressions?
Sustaining Energy In Polyamory
It’s no secret that polyamory takes a lot of time, resources, and energy. But how do you maintain your well-being when multiple people desire to have relationships with you?
No Shame November
Sex is not just sex. Sex can be tremendously beneficial as a way to experience pleasure, form connections, and deepen bonds. But sex is also about power, assimilation, and control.
Working With ENM Clients
What’s the difference between therapy and peer support? How can monogamous therapists do a better job at providing adequate care to their polyamorous clients?
Liberating Homonormativity
What’s the difference between gay assimilation and queer liberation? Why has homonormativity become so mainstream?
Transition Validations
Let’s celebrate all the different ways of being trans! Transition doesn’t look the same for everyone and that’s beautifully liberating.
Gender Reveal
It feels great to fully accept our true gender identity! Why is it so hard for some of us to find acceptance? What’s it like to be surrounded by supportive queer community?
Defending Canceled Friends
My friends are problematic… because they have large online audiences and refuse to play the losing game of conforming to every random stranger’s expectation. Bummer.
Busting Internalized Homophobia
Why do so many queers have internalized homophobia and transphobia? How can we learn to love ourselves and accept other members of our community?
My Petamour From Hell
My girlfriend’s cat is an absolute nightmare. I want to like my metamour (the cat one) but it’s impossible because she has pure toxic Gemini energy
Validating queerness in straight-assumed relationships.
It’s hard to feel like you’re queer enough when the whole world assumes you’re straight. How do you validate your queerness when the whole world insists on erasing it?
Touch Yourself! Masturbation & Self-Pleasure
Masturbation shouldn’t be a taboo! Fucking yourself is fun, freeing, and helps you discover what you actually want from partnered sex.
How To Be Sex-Positive
What is sex-positivity? How does sex-positivity help combat rape-culture and promote gender equality?
Queer Companies vs Rainbow Capitalism
So you want some rainbow covered products to celebrate pride… here’s why you should shop at queer-owned businesses instead of large corporations
Funishment Friday
I’m absolutely obsessed with this kinky card gamed called Funishment! Here’s how playing it allowed me to discover I like lightly torturing my girlfriend with uncooked rice