Honey Bunch and I fix up our house… and our communication style. We didn’t know that tearing our house apart would test our last nerve, so we had to learn to work better together.

While we can’t have magic fixes to our polyamorous problems, we CAN use magic phrases to help regulate our emotions and align our actions with our values

Lot’s of people want casual relationships but don’t know how to maintain those connections without letting their expectations run wild!

Practicing self-care in polyamory and ethical non-monogamy is difficult. I break down an easy method to understand self-care using a cake analogy.

It’s no secret that polyamory takes a lot of time, resources, and energy. But how do you maintain your well-being when multiple people desire to have relationships with you?

What’s the difference between therapy and peer support? How can monogamous therapists do a better job at providing adequate care to their polyamorous clients?

My girlfriend’s cat is an absolute nightmare. I want to like my metamour (the cat one) but it’s impossible because she has pure toxic Gemini energy

It’s hard to feel like you’re queer enough when the whole world assumes you’re straight. How do you validate your queerness when the whole world insists on erasing it?

A quick overview at the BITCH framework for managing jealousy in polyamory and ethical non-monogamy

Dissecting the BAES framework to help polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous folks set boundaries, agreements, expectations, and ask for support.

What steps do you need to take when you or your pal wants to open your previously monogamous relationship? Take a breath, I’ll guide you through!

What are the different types of polyamory, ethically non-monogamy, and deliberate forms of monogamy? We go over all the available options!

Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Unicorn hunters, one pen!s policies, veto power, couple’s privilege and more. I’m annoyed, let’s talk about it.

How do you deal with the constant change in polyamory? Is it possible to feel like your relationships are stable when everyone is dating and breaking up all the time?

I’m a shitty vegan. Once in a while I eat poutine with * gasp * REAL cheese. Here’s why I couldn’t care less about the opinion of REAL vegans, and how I structure my life to fit my needs

Let’s explore how identifying your satisfaction point allows you to be more content in your relationship and find happiness with your pals.

Practicing polyamory is a never-ending lesson. I share some of the valuable insights I have gained from talking to folks who practice consensually alternative relationship structures.