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We invite you to expand your current views on queerness, sexuality, and relationships!
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Learn about ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and consensually alternative structures. Dive into boundary setting, jealousy management, and effective communication. Browse all.
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Learn about queer theory, gender identity, and sexual orientation. Dive into LGBTQIA+ community, validating identities, and radical queerness. Browse all.
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Renovating Our Home (and Conflict Style)
Honey Bunch and I fix up our house… and our communication style. We didn’t know that tearing our house apart would test our last nerve, so we had to learn to work better together.
Redefining Family Child-Free
What does it look like to have a satisfying and fulfilling life while choosing to be deliberately child-free? What alternatives are there to having a nuclear family?
Recipe for Self-Care & Support Cake
Practicing self-care in polyamory and ethical non-monogamy is difficult. I break down an easy method to understand self-care using a cake analogy.
Sustaining Energy In Polyamory
It’s no secret that polyamory takes a lot of time, resources, and energy. But how do you maintain your well-being when multiple people desire to have relationships with you?
My Petamour From Hell
My girlfriend’s cat is an absolute nightmare. I want to like my metamour (the cat one) but it’s impossible because she has pure toxic Gemini energy
Validating queerness in straight-assumed relationships.
It’s hard to feel like you’re queer enough when the whole world assumes you’re straight. How do you validate your queerness when the whole world insists on erasing it?
Boundaries, Agreements, Expectations & Support
Dissecting the BAES framework to help polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous folks set boundaries, agreements, expectations, and ask for support.
Opening Your Relationship 101
What steps do you need to take when you or your pal wants to open your previously monogamous relationship? Take a breath, I’ll guide you through!
Consensually Alternative Relationship Structures
What are the different types of polyamory, ethically non-monogamy, and deliberate forms of monogamy? We go over all the available options!
Bad Practices In Polyamory
Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Unicorn hunters, one pen!s policies, veto power, couple’s privilege and more. I’m annoyed, let’s talk about it.
Directing Change In Polyamory
How do you deal with the constant change in polyamory? Is it possible to feel like your relationships are stable when everyone is dating and breaking up all the time?
Vegan Sex Education
I’m a shitty vegan. Once in a while I eat poutine with * gasp * REAL cheese. Here’s why I couldn’t care less about the opinion of REAL vegans, and how I structure my life to fit my needs
The Secret Link Between Satisfaction & Jealousy
Let’s explore how identifying your satisfaction point allows you to be more content in your relationship and find happiness with your pals.
Polyamory Lessons from Peer-Support
Practicing polyamory is a never-ending lesson. I share some of the valuable insights I have gained from talking to folks who practice consensually alternative relationship structures.